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Lessons from the book "How To Read A Person Like A Book" By Gerard I. Nierenberg and Henry H. Calero

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  Lessons from the book "How To Read A Person Like A Book" By Gerard I. Nierenberg and Henry H. Calero 1. Non-verbal communication is just as important as verbal communication: The book emphasizes that people convey a wealth of information through body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice. Understanding and interpreting these non-verbal cues can provide insight into a person's true thoughts and feelings. 2. Pay attention to the "clusters" of non-verbal signals: The authors stress the importance of looking for patterns and clusters of non-verbal cues rather than focusing on individual gestures. For example, if a person is crossing their arms, frowning, and avoiding eye contact, it may indicate discomfort or defensiveness. 3. Context matters: The book repeatedly emphasizes the importance of considering the specific situation and environment when interpreting non-verbal cues. A gesture or expression may have different meanings depending on the cultural b...

How to Make Decisions or Choose Between Different Options

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    In our everyday lives, we face lots of choices, big and small. It's common for us to wonder, "Is this what God wants for me?" We all go through moments where we're not sure if our decisions match up with what God has in mind. These choices, whether they're about important stuff or everyday things, make us think about a bigger picture. We want to make sure that what we do lines up with what God wants for us, the optimum decision. These pointers can help you navigate through that journey. Pray and Seek God's Will: Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV) - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV) Do not be anxious about anything What does the Bible Say About it? 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (NIV) - "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be th...