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Letter 5 (Letters to my Sons/Daughters); What is the right thing to do?

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As I reflect on my life journey, there's one realization that stands out above all others: the answers to ALL life's questions have been right in front of me all along, within the pages of the Bible. Yet, it took me years to fully grasp the depth of wisdom and guidance contained within this ancient text. Growing up, I relied majorly on what other people taught instead of reading it myself. While I had a vague familiarity with some stories and principles, I didn't truly understand the transformative power of the Bible until later in life. Instead, I found myself navigating through the complexities of life with uncertainty. However, even in my state of unknowing, there was a subtle force drawing me toward the wisdom of the Bible. It was as though its timeless truths were gently guiding me, despite my lack of conscious awareness. Looking back, I can see how its principles influenced my decisions and actions, often without me even realizing it. It wasn't until later in life...

We Remember the Fish....

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The Israelites, who were wandering in the wilderness after being liberated from slavery in Egypt, expressed their longing for the variety of foods they had in Egypt. Despite being sustained by manna, a miraculous bread-like substance provided by God, they yearn for the flavors and abundance they experienced in Egypt (Numbers 11). A few things are worth noting. Selective Memory: The Israelites selectively remember the pleasures of their past life in Egypt, such as the food they had, while conveniently forgetting the hardships and oppression they endured as slaves. This selective memory distorts their perception of reality and prevents them from recognizing the blessings of their present circumstances. Loss of Gratitude: Nostalgia can lead to a loss of gratitude for the blessings of the present. Despite experiencing God's deliverance from slavery and His provision of food in the wilderness, the Israelites express dissatisfaction and longing for their former life, demonstrating ingrat...

Principles of Time Management

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Setting Goals: Setting clear and achievable goals is important for effective time management. Philippians 3:13-14 (NIV) says, "Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus." This verse emphasizes the importance of setting goals and striving toward them. Time for Reflection and Evaluation: Taking time for reflection and evaluation allows individuals to assess their use of time and make necessary adjustments. Lamentations 3:40 (NIV) says, "Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the LORD." This verse encourages believers to reflect on their actions and make changes as needed. Boundaries: Setting boundaries is crucial for managing time effectively. Jesus often withdrew to lonely places for prayer and solitude (Luke 5:16). This demonstrates the importance of setting boundaries to protect time for rest, prayer, and personal renewal. It i...

Steps to Financial Freedom

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IIn the pursuit of financial freedom, there exists a roadmap paved with intention, discipline, and strategic planning. While the journey may vary for each individual, certain fundamental steps serve as guiding beacons along the path to prosperity and security. Here, we explore six essential steps that form the cornerstone of a robust financial foundation, empowering you to chart a course toward the ultimate goal of financial independence. Step 1;Active Income : The cornerstone of financial stability lies in the cultivation of active income—the revenue generated through your primary source of employment or business. Invest in honing your skills, advancing your career, or building a thriving enterprise that generates sustainable income streams. Maximize your earning potential through diligence, innovation, and a commitment to excellence, laying the groundwork for future financial success. Step 2;Emergency Fund : Life is unpredictable, and unforeseen circumstances can derail even the most...

Letting Go to Make Peace & Embracing New Realities.

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In life, we often find ourselves standing at the crossroads, faced with the daunting task of letting go of the familiar and venturing into uncharted territory. For me, this moment has arrived—a time of profound introspection and transformation as I bid farewell to the cherished relics of my youth and embrace the unfolding tapestry of new realities. Letting Go Soccer: Once a passion that defined my days and fueled my dreams, soccer now occupies a corner of my heart filled with cherished memories. As I bid farewell to the exhilarating rush of the game, I make space for new passions to take root and blossom. Hangouts and Gatherings: The echoes of laughter and camaraderie from meet-ups and gatherings with old friends now reside in the realm of nostalgia. While I treasure the memories, I release the need for constant social validation and embrace the beauty of solitude and introspection. Personalized Social Media: The days of meticulously curating my life on platforms like Facebook are behi...

Is this from God?

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How do you know what you are doing is from God? Peace and Contentment as Guidance - Peace and contentment signify God's presence and approval. - The absence of peace indicates a path misaligned with God's will. - Highlighting the importance of discerning peace before decisions to ensure God's backing. Repeated Messages and Patterns - Repeated divine guidance through various channels indicates the path God wants one to pursue. - Stressing the importance of heeding and aligning with these recurring messages. - Walking against divine promptings can lead to adverse outcomes. Alignment for Good Despite Obstacles - Obstacles and challenges on the path eventually align for one's good. - Trusting God's guidance despite difficulties leads to eventual alignment for success. - Using the story of Joseph as an example of obstacles leading to eventual fulfillment. Open Doors and Opportunities - The alignment with God's path leads to doors of opportunities opening effortlessly...

Lessons from the book "How To Read A Person Like A Book" By Gerard I. Nierenberg and Henry H. Calero

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  Lessons from the book "How To Read A Person Like A Book" By Gerard I. Nierenberg and Henry H. Calero 1. Non-verbal communication is just as important as verbal communication: The book emphasizes that people convey a wealth of information through body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice. Understanding and interpreting these non-verbal cues can provide insight into a person's true thoughts and feelings. 2. Pay attention to the "clusters" of non-verbal signals: The authors stress the importance of looking for patterns and clusters of non-verbal cues rather than focusing on individual gestures. For example, if a person is crossing their arms, frowning, and avoiding eye contact, it may indicate discomfort or defensiveness. 3. Context matters: The book repeatedly emphasizes the importance of considering the specific situation and environment when interpreting non-verbal cues. A gesture or expression may have different meanings depending on the cultural b...