Spoilt For Choice.

It was in a bash cum sleep over... after each person spoke anyone was free to make a compliment or ask a question regarding the way you know that person.Here I was making very genuine compliments.Apparently,it turned out that I was commenting after almost everyone...It had also happened that I was the first to introduce myself.In your introduction,you were to say something about your 'social development',I mean,'The Kabete question'...I mean Single or otherwise.And so I'm yet to crack the code.
'Rutinu is spoilt for choice,Please settle.Everyone is pretty until he ends up complimenting all the ladies!',one dude commented,the entire room burst out with laughter.

In another occasion someone warned me not to look at ladies with,'such kind of eyes',What!,I'm contemplating of acquiring glasses."Not everyone will understand that's the way you are,like I do,you will hear stories",The person reiterated.



This got me thinking.It made me analyze my actions,motive and the way forward.
I came to realize that the unconscious effects of not having cracked the code can be detrimental.(I want someone to confirm this).You  see a lady and thinking could she be the one (I know I'm speaking for many quiet dudes out there who haven't cracked).

You invite them for lunch,supper,breakfast,walks....without showing any intention as a way of analyzing them and when she turns out you live in two different planets you even don't tell them anything.You will be Hae-ing them when you meet on the streets.

One day,we (I'm acting as a self appointed spokesperson of all those dudes who believe in not making haste decisions) will settle,cherish my love like the world is ending tonight.Stop watching Yankee Zulu,Chipukizi and Kimondio we be watching 'cool stuff' together the likes of Brief Encounter,Casablanca,..stop shouting in the hostels but remain calm and collected,wuuii...and all those junks.I bet I'll change a lot.

Relax good people.We will love one-off, and everything else will turn out to be an outlier.

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