A 2nd Chance,I beg.

I received the much awaited call that was a life-changing opportunity.
Unfortunately,the communication between us was hampered  by some technical hitches,at one point I said,"I'm sorry i can't get you well but,.."The caller just hanged up the phone.
I tried calling&smsing but to no avail.And that was the end of our communication.

Well,I know you could be ascribing to the philosophy that opportunity come once in a life time.

Put yourself in my situation who is to blame.Though I had a consolation that it was not meant to be,that was just a way of easing my pressure.

I'm sure most of us have ever lost an opportunity but it wasn't our mistakes or it could be our mistakes.But, I strongly believe that we should listen to the other party too.To err is human we could have lost a precious chance to work,live,love with the best simply because we  didn't give them a 2nd chance.

If God gives us a 2nd chance who are we not to.
 Jonah 3:1-10: And the word of the LORD came unto Jonah the second time, saying.......
David repented and given a 2nd chance.
Salvation gives us a 2nd chance.

It's through being merciful and forgiving that we can accommodate others even having done all manner of ills to us.One doesn't have a guarantee that divorcing their spouse will give you one who doesn't hurt like the previous.It's no wonder that one can divorce more than 4 partners in their marriage life.

Let's purpose to look at the bigger picture not the titchy issues that will deny us a chance of getting the best out of every person and situation.

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